The
thing is you can never predict the future and you can never predict the
uncertainties that are going to happen in a relationship no matter how much you plan
Of course when it ends, you'll feel and wish like the relationship never happened and you never loved. it's real that feelings and emotions often fuck us up. But I rather loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
When you're in love with someone who loves you back, that's one of the most magical feeling ever. And those happy moments and wonderful experiences the both of you share, those are priceless. You can't buy that. And you can't feel that when you're not in love.
When you miss someone and they miss you as well, when you see someone who wants to see you as much. When you get hug someone who wants to be hugged by you. When you get the hold the hand of someone who wants you to hold it. This feeling can't be explained through words because it has to be felt.
When you get to visit the places and eat the food you love with the person you love. When you get to spend the night together even without talking or even touching but yet it feels so right and secure.
When someone sees you more than what you are. Make you feel better than what you are. Sees beyond the imperfection but still love you perfectly. It's unbelievable, the feeling really is unbelievable
But when uncertainties come in and things change, those feelings are lost and no longer mutual. It's painful to go through such thing. Love changes people but pain too, changes people. The pain would even sometimes feel unbearable. No amount of tears can make the pain feel any lesser
You can't delete the memories in your head no matter how much you want to, but why delete it? Those were the best moments of your life and deleting it means you are only losing yourself more. Why not build a new wall, start a new life but bringing in the happy moments in your life together with it.
It will take time and a lot of dark moments in your life but it is not impossible to get over a relationship. Time will heal everything.
The end of the relationship is not the end of your life. There's so many good memories and positives you can take it from it. So many lessons you can learn from it to make you a better and stronger person.
Of course when it ends, you'll feel and wish like the relationship never happened and you never loved. it's real that feelings and emotions often fuck us up. But I rather loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
When you're in love with someone who loves you back, that's one of the most magical feeling ever. And those happy moments and wonderful experiences the both of you share, those are priceless. You can't buy that. And you can't feel that when you're not in love.
When you miss someone and they miss you as well, when you see someone who wants to see you as much. When you get hug someone who wants to be hugged by you. When you get the hold the hand of someone who wants you to hold it. This feeling can't be explained through words because it has to be felt.
When you get to visit the places and eat the food you love with the person you love. When you get to spend the night together even without talking or even touching but yet it feels so right and secure.
When someone sees you more than what you are. Make you feel better than what you are. Sees beyond the imperfection but still love you perfectly. It's unbelievable, the feeling really is unbelievable
But when uncertainties come in and things change, those feelings are lost and no longer mutual. It's painful to go through such thing. Love changes people but pain too, changes people. The pain would even sometimes feel unbearable. No amount of tears can make the pain feel any lesser
You can't delete the memories in your head no matter how much you want to, but why delete it? Those were the best moments of your life and deleting it means you are only losing yourself more. Why not build a new wall, start a new life but bringing in the happy moments in your life together with it.
It will take time and a lot of dark moments in your life but it is not impossible to get over a relationship. Time will heal everything.
The end of the relationship is not the end of your life. There's so many good memories and positives you can take it from it. So many lessons you can learn from it to make you a better and stronger person.
You got to stand up, pick up the pieces of you, pick up the pieces of your broken heart, and mend it back together. It will not be perfect because we are not made to be perfect. Scars remind us of who we are and what we have been through. You will stand up taller and stronger.
Ask me again do I regret being in love eventhough it ended?
I will answer you "no" a million times. The feelings, the moments, the experience, and everything was real and priceless.
Well, it's just the same as why live if you're going to die.
Make the best out of everything.
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